DEAR EDITOR:
Many of us are familiar with the saying “whatever you want others to do for you, do also the same for them,” where, in the broader context of Jesus’ teachings, “others” include not only our family and friends, but also our neighbours and enemies. If this “Golden Rule” is truly universal, then let’s explore its potentially ameliorating effects on our behaviour in these turbulent times.
Within this moral law are embedded essential values: altruism, because we seek for others the good we want for ourselves; respect, because, as fellow humans, they are worthy; unity, because we are seeking a harmonious outcome from the good we do.
Here are some examples of the Golden Rule in action, with responses ranging from easy to hard.
Let’s say I approach a hiker as I’m jogging on a trail. I hope they’ll greet me, so I wait for a split second and then smile and say “Good morning….”.
Or, let’s say we’re in the ferry lane slowly driving down the hill and a westbound driver facing us signals, waiting to turn left into Village Square. What should we do?
Or when we see the ferry cars lined up the hill and then spot an opening near Snug Café but with cars parked beside it. How would the Golden Rule guide us?
Or (it’s getting harder) how would we interact with a neighbour who wants to explain why healthy people shouldn’t wear masks?
Or let’s say a friend told us they were just fired for refusing the COVID shots, which they believe is morally wrong to accept and a fundamental right to decline. How would we respond?
No matter the situation, the Golden Rule will guide us towards better outcomes for ourselves and our families, our friends and our neighbours, and yes, even our enemies.
Chuck Venhuizen
